tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post113797447491287208..comments2023-09-24T17:05:28.010+01:00Comments on David's Kingsbury blog: JudgementDavidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138145526103089722006-01-24T23:32:00.000+00:002006-01-24T23:32:00.000+00:00Blimey, the old playground 'be rude to the person ...Blimey, the old playground 'be rude to the person you fancy' gambit. I don't think it works much past 13, but fascinating train of thought.<BR/>I said I worked out you <B>weren't</B> from the forums as I would have spotted the style, and if you found me by random means then revealing who you are would have had little meaning so not that vital.<BR/>Interested in me? Blimey! Are you local??Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138122201057010112006-01-24T17:03:00.000+00:002006-01-24T17:03:00.000+00:00What forums are you talking about? The only forum ...What forums are you talking about? The only forum I am a member of is the Fuselage.<BR/><BR/>I happened upon your blog because one of my friends from the Fuselage has a blog and I noticed that you can read other people's blogs by by clicking on the arrow. I simply kept clicking on the arrow, read the blogs as I came to them, and one day I came across your blog, found it interesting and decided to send you a comment.<BR/><BR/>I don't know you, but from what I read I thought you might be the man for me, although some of the things you have said were a little childish. That's why I told you to grow up. There's nothing sinister to it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138121236934212052006-01-24T16:47:00.000+00:002006-01-24T16:47:00.000+00:00I agree about the constructive criticism, most of ...I agree about the constructive criticism, most of the attacks I referred to apparently belonged to a genuine troll whose material I clearly attributed to you. Most of what I wrote was about the issues she raised and my responses to them, but in your case if you offer constructive criticism it needs to be a bit more specific as 'grow up', as one example, is a bit hard to pin down as the recipient.<BR/>As for your identity you've made me try and work it out. My thought process is<BR/>1) Far more likely to be someone who knows me<BR/>2)Unlikely to be from the forums as I'd recognise the style, and the only similar person there has been eliminated by you<BR/>3) I had a favourite candidate from people who know me but as you said you only started reading a few weeks ago it ruled her out<BR/>4) I can't think of anyone else so maybe I don't know you...<BR/><BR/>I give up.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138113389668578152006-01-24T14:36:00.000+00:002006-01-24T14:36:00.000+00:00I accept your apology.In regards to revealing myse...I accept your apology.<BR/><BR/>In regards to revealing myself, I'll do that at another time. Maybe when you realise that I'm not the one attacking you in your blog.<BR/><BR/>Constructive criticism is different than an outright attack. I would have thought you would know the difference.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138110817617995832006-01-24T13:53:00.000+00:002006-01-24T13:53:00.000+00:00Thank you Sharon, you made the point better than I...Thank you Sharon, you made the point better than I did. If this person has a specific point to make, then make it. General blanket criticisms are just character attacks and if I'm supposed to change, then exactly what and how do I do it, and most importantly why? I never bother to trawl other people's blogs and psychonalyse them as it takes all sorts to make the world and none are made in our own images so it's very easy to see them as imperfect.<BR/>That is a problem in not accepting others, as you say.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138110522678093002006-01-24T13:48:00.000+00:002006-01-24T13:48:00.000+00:00a) I assumed you were someone who had been after m...a) I assumed you were someone who had been after me a lot longer. If your style has imitated theirs so closely I merged the two I apologise as well. I was referring to comments they made as far as the heavy stuff was concerned, and if that wasn't you then it doesn't apply.<BR/><BR/>b)What about your unveiling? Wasn't it due on Friday?Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1138033064395048362006-01-23T16:17:00.000+00:002006-01-23T16:17:00.000+00:00Let me say this, I am not stalking you, as you say...Let me say this, I am not stalking you, as you say. The first time I made a comment on your blog was a few weeks ago, and I think I have been nice and not too much out of line. You do need to be told to grow up, and if that has offended you, I apologise.<BR/><BR/>You must have been extremely harassed to the point where someone can't even give you constuctive criticism.<BR/><BR/>That's too bad, because as the saying goes "That which does not kill you, makes you stronger", so it's quite obvious that no matter how much you profess that you are so intelligent, in reality you have a small closed mind, especially since you go on the defensive when you receive constructive criticism.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-1137993672112099962006-01-23T05:21:00.000+00:002006-01-23T05:21:00.000+00:00This doesn't sound like it is about you....it is a...This doesn't sound like it is about you....it is all about her. She has a bad case of low self-esteem. People like that need to bring others down to where they are. I don't see you as the type of person who would allow yourself to be manipulated that way.She sounds like a closet bully and if you call her hand you may just scare her off. (but based on history I wouldn't count on it)<BR/>There is a saying..<BR/><BR/>Its none of my business what you think about me<BR/><BR/>So, whatever she feels about you is none of your business. It is her business.<BR/><BR/>You are only responsible for your thoughts, words, and actions.<BR/><BR/>Not those of anyone else.Sharon Schoepehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17971515952076467298noreply@blogger.com