tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post6360625006503588097..comments2023-09-24T17:05:28.010+01:00Comments on David's Kingsbury blog: Back to normalDavidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-80383376785842466692008-08-05T22:52:00.000+01:002008-08-05T22:52:00.000+01:00Thanks a lot Thomas, I realised long ago we're all...Thanks a lot Thomas, I realised long ago we're all made pretty much the same so if you've done nothing wrong there's nothing to hide. <BR/><BR/>And hopefully by being open myself encourages other people to as well as they see I don't get hit by a bolt of lightning every time I reveal a personal detail.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-58432079949741840342008-08-05T17:29:00.000+01:002008-08-05T17:29:00.000+01:00David, your candidness is a breath of fresh air!David, your candidness is a breath of fresh air!Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14155649109887790410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-406123712682256832008-08-05T14:20:00.000+01:002008-08-05T14:20:00.000+01:00Thanks Tashi. You've shown how a decent person can...Thanks Tashi. You've shown how a decent person can see the bleedin' obvious and those who can't have their own massive agendas in the way. A distorting lens that clearly wants to see the worst in everyone as that is how they are themselves. Probably been treated like shit most of their lives (did I get away with another word there?) and assume everyone is the same. Sad and there's nothing we can do even though we have free rein to communicate they will never listen.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-18144131237165976262008-08-05T14:16:00.000+01:002008-08-05T14:16:00.000+01:00"Now in this post you’re claiming to have held a j...<B>"Now in this post you’re claiming to have held a job for 5 years, yet in a previous post you claimed to have only worked for a few months at a time, and in yet another previous post you claimed to have only been able to hold a job for a week. So which is it? When you can get your lies straight, then you can answer.<BR/></B><BR/><BR/>OK, the full time jobs never lasted longer than months as I always had to go back to college full or part time and none would let me take a morning off. The others were all part time but the week as I said I was simply let go.<BR/><BR/>Childhood is still us and most adult problems originate and are explained in childhood. And me, a poof? That's why I'm a therapist and you're not. The worst interpretations of the human mind I've ever come across in that paragraph. All you want to do is judge and don't care in the slightest about your fellow human beings. You know what that could be don't you.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062717140344359936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-13563233707812313422008-08-05T08:00:00.000+01:002008-08-05T08:00:00.000+01:00Well anonymii, tashi hopes you read this post and ...Well anonymii, tashi hopes you read this post and got to see the real human being in there 'just trying to get by' like the rest of us, lonely, clearly harming no-one, helping his grandma sometimes, talking to his family, and generally trying to cope with the way his personal 'foundation' psychology has been damaged by the pompous, tense, aggressive, competitive, consumption-mad Euro-American culture into which he was born. <BR/><BR/>Its not so hard to understand the guy if you bother to stop and look for him beyond your own rose-coloured valued eyeglasses (=value system). Is it ?<BR/><BR/>Good post David, stoic, and the genuineness is clear. Enjoyable literature too, in conveying a strong sense impression of your lifespace. Tashi thought the comments about your photography and the way you use it to explore the agoraphobia (and presumably the social anxiety it incorporates) were particularly interesting ... tashi never understood this about you before and applauds the ingenuity of it all. Cheers.tashihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11781050618625973776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7479077.post-53460880328100380202008-08-05T03:08:00.000+01:002008-08-05T03:08:00.000+01:00David said:“So I've used up my quota of rude words...David said:<BR/>“So I've used up my quota of rude words for 2008 and possibly the whole decade”<BR/>---------<BR/>Since you’ve used up your quota of rude words for 2008, we won’t be seeing any nasty or vulgar words from you until next year, right?<BR/><BR/>David said:<BR/>“Anyway, besides now being thoroughly confused having to juggle who knows how many anonymous posters and supposed to know who said what when I reply I don't know.”<BR/>----<BR/>If you can’t tell one anonymous poster from another, then you’re not as smart as you claim you are. Clearly there are several different styles of writing, which means several different people are posting under anonymous. For someone who claims they are so intelligent, you really are stupid.<BR/><BR/>Why does anything and everything you say or do end up going back to your childhood? Were you physically abused as a child? Did someone molest you as a child? If none of these things happened, then stop going back to when you were a child. Good God, you’re supposed to be an adult man, for Christ’s sake. <BR/><BR/>David said: <BR/>“So my only foundations within my control were business ones, qualifications and money. Both went reasonably well although I never got a master's degree as I preferred not to pay for a full time one and the part time one almost killed me. Or a recognised profession mainly as I couldn't manage O level maths and half the ones I could have tried needed it. I have the one I want now but it's not recognised or I'd have been working properly some years ago. I presume the jobs I did apply for made the employers laugh when they saw my qualifications although if I was happy to add up their figures, sort their papers or serve their customers (and had done so previously for 5 years when I did work) they may as well have given me a chance. But it never happened.”<BR/>-----<BR/>For someone who claims to have such a high IQ, O level maths would be a breeze, so it’s quite obvious that your claim of a high IQ is, like your previous week, “full of cack”.<BR/><BR/>Now in this post you’re claiming to have held a job for 5 years, yet in a previous post you claimed to have only worked for a few months at a time, and in yet another previous post you claimed to have only been able to hold a job for a week. So which is it? When you can get your lies straight, then you can answer.<BR/><BR/>The reason why you live alone is because you’re not a desirable human being. You look down on woman and think the sun rises and sets with you. What woman would respect something like you?<BR/><BR/>David said:<BR/>“And when you stop growing at 15 and see all your friends carry on for a few years and look down to hear what you're saying it doesn't help either. That's one reason I developed such a sharp tongue, but would not like to become physically threatened either. So the combination of a fragmented family and being the size of a girl was a start with a kill or cure path for many more years for my future. Like a boy named Sue really and look what happened to him.”<BR/>--------------<BR/><BR/>So now we come to the very heart of your problems: sexual confusion. Since you claim you are the “size of a girl”, it’s quite obvious that you have sexual confusion and you think about being with a boy or a man.<BR/><BR/>As for your so-called “sharp tongue”, a mute has a shaper tongue than you do. <BR/><BR/>Now remember, you’re not allowed to use rude words, as you used up your quota for 2008.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com